And with only a few ingredients, it is easy to make too! This easy cocktail only has 3 simple ingredients, plus fruit for garnish. Any type of white sparkling wine will work! You can use Cava, Prosecco, etc. I even have a sparkling chardonnay that I love! Again, any type of vodka will work here, so pick your favorite! If going for a the full French theme, Grey Goose is good quality vodka that is made in France, as is Ciroc. When it comes to liqueurs, you kind of get what you pay for.
The real cheapie stuff often tastes cloyingly sweet, so I try to stick with higher quality. In this case, Chambord is my recommendation and it is made in France too! A garnish of lemon slice and fresh raspberries adds a bright touch to the drink. Using a lemon slice or a twist lemon peel adds a hint of citrus flavor, without cloudiness that lemon juice would make. You can use either fresh or frozen raspberries. Using frozen raspberries is a pretty way to keep the drink cold, without watering it down.
Do not muddle raspberries, as this will release the seeds and make for a cloudy drink. A champagne flute is my go-to for sparkling cocktails such as this one, though you could use a martini glass or a coupe for a unique look. See an example with our sparkling black cherry martini here! Want to use a stemless champagne glass, like the ones pictured here? These stemless glasses with gold glitter are available on Amazon and add a festive sparkle!
Place a lemon slice or lemon twist into the bottom of a champagne flute. It will be about half and half vodka to champagne. The vacuum kiss The french kiss also treated in more detail in part 2 The trobriand islands kiss The car kiss Kissing advice - how to give a hickey What is a french kiss What can go wrong during a french kiss How to practice a french kiss Why does a french kiss feel good How do I get boys to french kiss me How do I get boys to stop french kissing me How do I get girls to french kiss me What can I do with my tongue What are some tricks I can do while french kissing How should I move my hands while french kissing How should I snuggle while french kissing How long should a french kiss last How can I improve my french kisses Part 3 - Extras and Outtakes including four kisses not available on video The androgynous kiss The spanking kiss The lip kiss detailed advanced version The hand kiss At the corral Jessica gets hit in the head by the camera William Cane''''s books One can hit the opponent at various strategic spots with great gusto, without causing any real injury, as long as no heavy blows reach the face, breasts, or genitals of either partner.
As a vigorous pillow fight may result in a mess of flying feathers, one might want to consider pillows with synthetic or rag stuffing. As for clothing, a couple may start their love-play dressed, partly dressed, or undressed, according to their personal taste and the whim of the moment. Disrobing oneself rapidly bespeaks either great urgency or lack of finesse.
This can be done slowly, in for example a game of strip poker, in which the loser of each round must divest one or more articles of clothing. Pressing on at Love-Play Whether the prelude lasts the wink of an eye or an hour, or even days, the unmistakably sexual love-play that follows often evokes all the senses of both partners: This phase of lovemaking consists mainly of kissing, hugging, and caressing. These activities can be enjoyed with endless variations.
They involve the entire body and eventually focus on the genital area. Kissing is an effective and essential part of love-play. The mouth, lined with soft, pliable tissues including keen tactile and taste sensors, is an erotic organ. The tactile sensation varies with the amount of suction used. In erotic mouth-to-mouth kissing, one touches, tastes, and smells a member of the opposite sex; this intimacy is analogous to coitus.
Deep kissing is usually the first undeniably erotic act between lovers. Depending on the degree of intimacy and the mood of the intimacy it often leads to other forms of touching, namely caressing. Experienced lovers who want to arouses and pleasure their mates have quite a store of information on this: modern sexologists have enumerated erogenous zones, and ancient Taoists mapped various love points on the body.
Any part of the body, actually, could be an erogenous zone. Stroking the nape of the neck lightly, kissing the sides of the neck, probing the car opening with a stiff tongue, nibbling the earlobe might bring a partner to a high pitch. Other erogenous zones are the armpits; inside the elbows, thighs, and knees; at the lower spine; and of course, in the genital areas.
Some of the love points identified by the ancient Taoists coincide with the erogenous zones, while others do not. The sensitivity of the commonly accepted erogenous zones differs among individuals; some people, in fact, are completely without sensitivity in certain areas. In zones generally Iess sensitive than the breast, the reaction is even more unpredictable.
A careful lover first explores and experiments on these areas in love-play to find the most effective way to arouse and pleasure the partner. Sensitivity to erotic caresses usually increases from the extremities of limbs to the torso, and from the peripheral parts of the torso to its middle. Caressing a partner in the peripheral areas and progressing to more sensitive areas tends to create a crescendo of desire. Kissing naturally merges with caressing in love-play.
An inexperienced or inconsiderate lover, usually the male, is often guilty of heavy-handed love-play. Such a crude style turns many women off. What turns them on, at least in the beginning, are gentle and tender caresses. Energetic, vigorous love-play is effective when the partner has been highly stimulated already. Even many men are aroused more by love-play that titillates and tantalizes.
And it should he remembered that the sight, sound, and scent of an aroused mate are often potent aphrodisiacs. Most women are highly stimulated by having their breasts caressed and kissed.
In some passionate women more psychological reactions ma make their nipples erect. But most are aroused by a combination of psychological factors and the physical love-play at their breasts. A good lover therefore, after kissing and caressing his partner s face, neck, and shoulders, will go on to her breasts. When done with tender passion, this will greatly arouse his partner.
Most women enjoy having their breasts cupped and hefted with the palms, lightly stroked around the nipples, rhythmically and gentle squeezed. They love having their breasts kissed, and their nipples rhythmically and playfully licked with the tip of the tongue. By using the smooth and rough sides alternately, a man can give varying sensations to a woman. Only after such exquisitely stimulating preliminaries should he go on to lower areas-buttocks, groin, perineum, vulva, clitoris.
Genital Carressing-And Beyond: Love-play progresses naturally to the genital area. It may end right there, to be repeated some other time; it may result in orgasm; it may lead directly to coitus. Genital caressing may involve any of a number of techniques: stroking, pressing, rubbing, vibrating, tickling, thrusting, kissing, nibbling, licking, sucking-all carried out with varying pressure, speed, and rhythm.
Some people delight in continuous, relentless caresses, while others prefer a teasing, repeated stop and-go approach. As all these genital organs are made of tender, sensitive tissue, genital caressing is best begun with slow, light touches; it may then progress to more active, speedier, heavier caresses.
Such a gradual buildup prepares the participants not only emotionally but also physically; among other things, it promotes genital lubrication, without which any heavy, passionate caress would be uncomfortable, even painful. Different techniques of caressing suit different zones of the pubic area.
Light strokes and soft kisses are most arousing to the insides of the thighs and groin. The fleshy derriere can with stand much heavier caresses, such as kneading, squeezing, and light smacking. Stroking the buttocks with an occasional side excursion to the perineum is quite arousing. Some people find this thrilling, while others arc repelled by it. According to recent polls conducted by Redbook and other magazines, a large majority of Americans in higher education and income groups experiment with or regularly practice cunnilingus, fellatio, and such play.
One of the most erotically sensitive zones, and often one of the most neglected, is the perineum, the site at a cluster of sexual nerve endings. It corresponds to the hui-yin acupoint, which stimulates male erection as well as female desire. Caressing the perineum lightly with the fingers or the tip of the tongue is very stimulating. Many think of the anus as surely an excretory organ. Actually, it is connected with sexual nerves, some of which are highly aroused when the anus-washed very clean-is caressed.
The French use the term postillonage to describe pressing and poking it with a finger, and feuille de rose rose leaf to describe licking it and probing into it with the tip of the tongue.
Anal caressing is a matter of personal preference. By lubricating the sexual organs, these secretions facilitate intercourse. As a pheromune they also act as a sexual attractant, arousing partners greatly. The ancient Taoists considered ample lubrication of paramount importance for pleasurable sex. So do modern sexologists, who suggest substitutes such as saliva or artificial lubricants in case of emergency.
As with food, natural ingredients are always the best. From a scientific point of view, genital secretions are similar to saliva. The genitals, if carefully cleaned, have a lower bacterial count than the mouth. Genital secretion from an aroused male comes as a clear, slippery liquid oozing from the mouth of the penis.
It originates in two pea-size glands just beneath the prostate, and several smaller ones in the urethra. This secretion is not semen, although if the man becomes highly aroused it may contain a small amount. In the woman, a similar liquid is emitted from four vestibular glands around the vagina opening.
The semen ejaculated during male orgasm comes from the testicles and the prostate. This sticky, milky fluid becomes more liquid sexual exposure to air. As mentioned earlier, sexologists report that some women ejaculate a fluid when they have a deep uterine orgasm. This transparent liquid serves no biological function and is believed by some sexologists to enhance sexual pleasure. Caressing The Moon Grotto Kissing and caressing by her lover normally are sufficient to arouse a woman so that her moon grotto is lubricated and her clitoris is erect.
Her partner can easily ascertain this by occasional quick forays to the vaginal area when he is fondling; her thighs and buttocks. The clitoris is very sensitive to touch. Its shaft rather than its sensitive tip should be caressed; in some women the tip can stand only the lightest touch, and a heavy caress could be uncomfortable.
Next are the labia minora, or inner lips, at the vulva. By alternately caressing the clitoris and the vulva, first Iightly, then moderately, a man may intensify his partner, pleasure rapidly. By stroking along the labia minora and then around the rim of the vagina opening with his middle and index fingers, he can induce more lubrication to flow.
If he scoops up these secretions with his fingers, he can rub the shaft of the clitoris with them. If the woman spreads her thighs wide, the classics indicate, she is responding favorably to the manual love-play. When her partner gets this signal, his fingers can probe deeper into her moon grotto. He can intensify her sensations by using one or two fingers to go deep, touch her flower heart, and stroke it lightly.
Some women are capable of multiple orgasms through clitoral stimulation. A few passionate women can go from orgasm to orgasm for a considerable time. The man can bring her to a much more intense uterine orgasm by caressing her G spot; many women, however, appreciate a deep orgasm better during coitus, if the man knows the right positions and dynamics. He can find the G spot by inserting his middle and index fingers about two inches inside the opening of the grotto. With his finger pads facing the front wall of the grotto canal, he massages exploring]y.
Once there, he can press the spot lightly and rhythmically. By pushing down on her mons veneris with the palm of the other hand at the same time, the man can increase the pressure on the spot. Caressing The Jade Stalk Caressing the male genitals can be tricky, depending on whether the man is to ejaculate or not. If he is not, either he should be conversant with the techniques of orgasmic brinkmanship, or there should be prior agreement in what signals he should live the woman to stop as soon as he senses the appruaelr at his crisis.
An experienced woman can sense which the man is near the brink even without his signalinl;, and beat a hasty retreat. Fondling the jade stalk is best done by first lightly stroking the perineum with the fingertips. The woman fingers then move softly to the back, bottom, and front of the scrotum with half tickling, half-soothing caresses.
Pinching, squeezing, or nipping; them is not love-play; it may cause excruciating pain, injury, or disability. By gripping firmly near the tip with her palms and fingers, and moving her grasp toward the base, she makes its skin more taut. This exposes and tightens the engorged glans, or crown, which she can stimulate with the fingertips of the other hand, with short, light to-and-fro friction.
The underside of an erect stalk is more sensitive than the upper side, and the glans and the ridge around its base are even more sensitive. The most sensitive part of the male stalk is the triangular knot-shaped frenulum at the underside of the ridge.
If there has been lubrication of the glans, the woman can smear the secretion with a fingertip in a rotary motion around the glans she can do the same with her own saliva. The woman can vary the caress by pumping the shaft up and down with her grasping hand but she must take care not to bring the man to ejaculation, unless this is intended. This stop-and-go technique can help the man de lay or avoid ejaculation, while giving him great pleasure and rousing him tremendously.
If she desires, the woman can supplement her caressing wit kissing the stalk. While holding the shaft, she can tentatively kiss the glans, then take it from there hills and dales. This partner should lie totally relaxed, with eyes closed.
Various parts of the face, including the lips, are titillated next. Then down the neck to the breasts, the cinnabar field, and the groin.
The butterfly touches are delicious to the closed-eyed partner-especially a, it is not know where they will Iand next. The tiny, electric spasms created on the skin are likely to bring forth a plea for firmer caresses.
The artist should not give in to such a plea until the moist landing is ready. For this exquisite stage, dip the tip of the brush in a little aromatic oil. On a woman, caress her areolas and nipples with the oiled brush; go around and around, and Hit between the breasts.
Next, open her legs and let the butterfly flirt along her perineum and vulva. Then brush her clitoris, first in upward strokes, next in a circular motion.
On a man, brush his perineum and scrotum and the exposed glans. You may give your loved one a marvelous, unforgettable hour with this extraordinary game. A woman with long eyelashes can turn them into spring butterflies by blinking at her partner at extremely close quarters.
A man can commandeer his moustache for the same purpose. Such maneuvers may prove exhausting, however, if the whole territory is to be covered. Peacock Tease This game was invented centuries ago, when the peacock feather became a decoration of meritorious service to the emperor.
Noblemen who were interested in a different type of meritorious service used a peacock feather playfully on their women. Nowadays either partner, male or female, can use the feather on the other. Feathers from ostriches, pheasants, storks, and even chickens also can be used. Like the spring butterfly, the spider can go all over the body. Silk Tease: For this love game, a scarf or lingerie of genuine silk is preferable; otherwise soft acetate will do.
Do not use nylon, as it is too stiff. Silk gives a rich, luxurious sensation, quite different from that of brush-pens or feathers. Begin by inhaling and sniffing the breath of your loved one. The natural scent of aroused genitals is a strong aphrodisiac between lovers.
Tongue Sweep: This game may-and quite naturally does-start with a roving kiss. The tongue is lavished on a partner with touches ranging from the lightest tickling with the tip to a firm brushing with it rough surface. Zero in on the ear cavity, under the chin, and the palms and soles. Then target the navel, the breasts and nipples, in side the thighs, and the perineum. A thorough tongue tease will deplete your supply of saliva no matter how much you may drool.
Each of these love points is a carfully mapped acupoint in classical acupuncture. Each has an equivalent international code number used by Western and other non-Chinese researchers in acupuntcure.
In traditional acupuncture, most of these accupoints have general health as well as sexual functions. The love points are presented here in a very simplified manner, and are selected according to the zones of the body rather than an apecific meridian. This is for the practical use of modern lovers who do not have the time or patience to spend months studying such acupoints.
The love points can be located on the relevant maps on this page and the following two pages; individual names are given only for selected points. Love points are scattered all over the human body, but the manjority are concentrated on the torso.
Acupressure, not acupunture, may be used on love points; indeed, some love points should never be pricked by needles. Some points may be stroked or gently pressed and vibrated with the fingertips, while others may be massaged with the palm. It is a t times difficult to locate love points and other acupoints on the body, but in many cases they can be found if finger pressure causes a sensation of tenderness.
Partners who want to locate the points, and play the game, should study the maps and explore. The game of love points may be played as ongoing, long-term therapy for sexual energy, or it may serve as an interlude during love-play.
Partners may want to combine love-point acupressure with erotic massage, discussed later. The major love points are described below, with suggestions on how to stimulate them:.
Perineum: The hui-yin sex crossroads , one of the most important love points, is located at the midpoint of the perineum, slightly beneath the skin. In acupuncture, it is important in treating penile pain, vaginitis, irregular menstruation, and prolapse of the uterus. For sexual arousal in love-play, the perineum may be stroked and the point pressed with a fingertip for 4 seconds, then release and pressed again, 4o times or for 5 minutes.
This point is one of the two known erection centers for men. Cinnabar field: From the navel down to the pubic symphysis at the front of the pubic bone, felt just above the genitals is a line of seven love points. An approximate way to locate them is to consider thc distance between thc navel and the pubic symphysis as five segments, each a little over an inch long.
The navel itself has a love point. One segment below it is yin-chiao sexual junction. Half a segment below it is shih-men stone gate.
Below it, at the bottom of each of the next three segments are kuen-yuan pass of primacy , chung-chi ultimate middle , and chu-ku, the pubic bone. These seven front midline love points are intimately linked with sexual well-being and sexual desire. During love-play all of them should be stroked and pressed with the palm. They should be pressed or rubbed lightly-never heavily-with the fingertip, the finger pad, or the thumb.
Press each time for about 3 to 5 seconds; then release and press again. By moving down from the navel to the pubic area, and giving gentle acupressure some to times to each point, one progresses to points of increasing arousal.
A tirlnecd-up tongue-tip may be used in place of the finger. Breasts: Love points on the female breasts are both for short-term arousal and long-term enlargement. Each of the nipples contains a love point.
On the breastbone, at the same Ievel of the apples, is another, something called the middle cinnabar field. About an inch up from each nipple toward the corresponding shoulder is another love point. At the base of the breasts are two more pairs. Except for the point on the breastbone, the love points are to be pressed and stroked with the palm and palpated lightly with the finger.
Groin: About two inches down the crease between the abdomen and the thighs are a pair of love points. Touching them, by pressing lightly and stroking along the groin with the fingertips, may alleviate frigidity and importance.
Upper back: There are four pairs at love points in the upper back that may be stimulated for sexual energy. The top points of these lines align with the lower and of the second thoracic vertebra; the bottom ones align with the lower end of the fifth thoracic vertebra.
Press each point firmly with the fingertips for a few seconds; then release. Move to the next point. Repeat the acupressure trip a few times.
Lower back: Immediately below the second lumbar vertebra, right on the spine and a little below the back of the waist, is ming-men life gate , an important point for sexual energy and the second erection center for the male. Press this love point firmly with the fingertips for what should be satisfying results. At the same level as this point, on either side of the spine, are two more love points, about i?
They should be pressed along with the life gate. Sacral-coccygeal area: Press firmly with the fingertips on the eight love points lined up in a narrow V on the sacrum. A ninth point is on the tip of the coccyx.
Thighs and legs: On the front of each thigh, about midway between the kneecap and the groin, are two love points. About two inches above the kneecap, at the bulge of muscles slightly toward the inside, is another point. These may be pressed firmly with the thumb.
Lower leqs: The most important love point on the lower leg is san-yin-chiao junction of three Yins , which is on the inside of the shin, about three inches above the apex of the medial malleolus, behind the tibia. Pressure on this paint may alleviate impotence, frigidity, and premature ejaculation. Erotic Massage One of the most sensual games in love-play is erotic massage. The three-thousand-year-old Chinese massage is aimed not so much at the muscles as at the chi meridians and the central nervous system, which controls both body and mind.
This venerable classical therapy, when specially adapted for certain areas of the body by a beloved mate, can intensify the alchemy of desire delightfully.
Numerous volumes have been written on this therapeutic art, which requires complicated techniques and much practice to be truly effective. A book of this scope, therefore, will not pretend to cover whole-body erotic massage.
Rather, a few simple techniques are presented, and several areas of the body where erotic massage works best arc highlighted. Couples who combine these massage techniques with the game of love points in the preceding pages will obtain even greater effects. Some ground rules: Since massage is a from of nonverbal communication, an unspoken rapport established between two individuals through the intimate contact of hands and body.
In erotic massage, the partners are preferably nude or almost nude, to facilitate the skin-to -skin exchange of life-force and sexual energy. All parts of the body, except the genitals, may be touched. Most areas may be massaged firmly except those vulnerable to injury e.
The partner being massaged should lie on a floor mat, a narrow table, a daybed, or a bed with an extrafirm mattress. Massage can be done without lubricant or, if preferred, with scented water or oil. A good homemade lubricant is mixture of two-thirds soybean oil, one-third sesame oil, and a sprinkling of aromatic essence such as lavender, chamomile, rose, sandalwood, or yang-yang.
Sesame oil is very good for the skin; yang-yang, from a tropical Asian flower, is considered an aphrodisiac and has a positive effect on blood pressure. Oils are available in Chinese groceries; aromatic essences from natural food stores and pharmacies. An erotic massage can be a whole-body affair, beginning at fingers and toes and progressing alone the limbs to the rest of the body. This easily takes an hour. Partners may prefer an abridged version concentrating on the torso and thighs, which takes 20 minutes or less.
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